Updated September 2026: in 2019, midway through my vacation, my manager asked me to join an early call on a difficult opportunity. I joined on mute, and when the onsite lead demanded to know what I had done in the past few days, my manager defended me. I have rewritten it into advice on joining a work call from leave on your own terms.
The first days of my vacation were quiet. Then, early one morning, my manager called to ask whether I could join a call on the same opportunity. With little choice, I agreed, saying I would stay on mute because of carpentry work at home. On the call, the onsite lead questioned my manager about what I had done over the last few days. This time my manager stood up for me.
Should you join a call while on leave?
Only when it is genuinely important, and on clear terms. A single call to answer questions that only you can answer is reasonable. Being pulled into ongoing work is not. If you agree, set the terms at the start: how long you can join and what you can and cannot commit to.
How do you set those terms politely?
- "I can join for twenty minutes to answer questions about the deck."
- "I am on leave until Monday, so I cannot take on new actions this week."
- "Please send any follow-ups to Priya, who is covering."
What should your manager do when you are questioned?
Exactly what mine did: point out that you are on approved leave and explain the status. A manager who defends approved leave builds trust and sets expectations for the stakeholder. If you are questioned directly, it is fine to say calmly that you are on leave and your manager or cover will follow up.
How do you avoid being called in the first place?
Leave a clear handover, including status, open items and who covers what. Most calls to people on leave happen because nobody else knows the answer. A good handover note makes you unnecessary for a week, which is the goal.
Should you thank your manager for backing you?
Yes, briefly, when you return. It reinforces the behaviour and strengthens the relationship. Managers rarely hear when they have handled something well.